These are lessons I’ve learned from training for a marathon this year. I go on 5 runs a week and am learning from an excellent coach, Jeff Cunningham.
These lessons are painfully obvious in running, but I think can be applied more systematically to learning the violin (where mistakes aren’t as painful).
1. Consistently Good > Occasionally Great
This is one of Jeff’s quotes that has changed my life. His concept is that all we need to be successful is a stack of good days. And consistent good effort will always beat out a single, occasional perfect workout. In fact, the effort it takes to be perfect will probably disrupt all of the other systems in your life that support consistency.
So just stay good. Stay consistent. Ignore the desire to be perfect. Perfect is often an illusion that lets you of the hook.
There are many days we I can’t complete the scheduled workout perfectly because I don’t quite enough time or the exact right conditions. Rather than giving up, I just get done what I can. It is good enough, but not perfect.
Thankfully, good is all we need.
2. Don’t control outputs, control inputs
I can’t will my body to run 26.2 miles at a particular pace.